{"id":1018,"date":"2010-12-21T11:50:42","date_gmt":"2010-12-21T09:50:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/drsavta.com\/wordpress\/?p=1018"},"modified":"2010-12-21T11:50:42","modified_gmt":"2010-12-21T09:50:42","slug":"on-my-dads-birthday","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/drsavta.com\/wordpress\/2010\/12\/21\/on-my-dads-birthday\/","title":{"rendered":"On my Dad&#8217;s birthday"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I miss my father now probably more than ever.  He was a really wonderful man&#8211; not just to me and my family, but he was a man who everyone liked.  His relatives, his friends, and even his customers all loved him.  He had a ready smile, an optimistic outlook, and time to listen to everyone&#8217;s story.<\/p>\n<p>In the worst times, he was strong and never lacked his optimism and resolve to live a good life.  When my mother&#8217;s overspending finally bankrupted them, my father went on the road as a traveling salesman.  He sold objects of art and was so successful that his suppliers couldn&#8217;t keep up with his sales.  At the time, my husband and I and our baby son lived in Columbia, South Carolina.  My father&#8217;s route was the eastern seaboard and so he showed up at our place a couple of times that year.  He was always full of stories of the people he had met.  He did a lot of smiling and it was a treat to have him to ourselves for a couple of days.<\/p>\n<p>When he finally went back into his own business with my uncle Bill&#8217;s help, he put up a sign on the storefront that said, &#8220;Harry&#8217;s back!&#8217;  People would come into the store and greet him.  People who hadn&#8217;t known him from before would say, &#8220;Harry&#8217;s back?&#8221; and he would turn around and show them his back!<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes I picture him interacting with one or another of my grandchildren.  It&#8217;s so very easy.  I can see him smiling, talking with them, teaching them how to build things or draw things or how to appreciate the objects of nature.  He&#8217;s always full of enthusiasm and fully invested in talking to and listening to the person he is with.  I can see the sparkle in his eyes, and in my fantasy, he is here with me.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/drsavta.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/12\/rachelzayda.jpg\" alt=\"rachel&amp;zayda\" title=\"rachel&amp;zayda\" width=\"239\" height=\"242\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-1019\" \/> <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I miss my father now probably more than ever. He was a really wonderful man&#8211; not just to me and my family, but he was a man who everyone liked. His relatives, his friends, and even his customers all loved him. He had a ready smile, an optimistic outlook, and time to listen to everyone&#8217;s [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[5,8,9,6],"tags":[27,91,32,35,45,92],"class_list":["post-1018","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-family-life","category-parenting","category-ramblings","category-interpersonal-relationships","tag-family","tag-family-life","tag-grandparents","tag-harry-mager","tag-mager","tag-interpersonal-relationships","entry"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/drsavta.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1018","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/drsavta.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/drsavta.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/drsavta.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/drsavta.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1018"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/drsavta.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1018\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/drsavta.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1018"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/drsavta.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1018"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/drsavta.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1018"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}